I wiped away the weeds & foam. / I fetched my sea-born treasures home... Ralph Waldo Emerson







Friday, January 4, 2019

Finishing the Year ~ New Years Menus and Other Stuff




Hi everyone! Welcome 2019!



The past few days I've been slowly dismantling the Christmas decor around the house. All that remains is the red toile pillow covers and the red/ pink and white transferware china. I may leave the red and white plates up a few more weeks to show a friend who will visit me mid-January. (She thinks she only likes blue, lol. I'll show her.) And the Christmas tree, tiny as it is, is still glowing happily in its corner. I won't take it down til Twelfth Night, on January 5th Twelfth Night refers to the last day of the Twelve Days of Christmas, from long ago when Christmas was celebrated not from Halloween til Christmas Day, but from Christmas Eve to the 12th night, or Three Kings Day, when the Magi/ Wise Men arrived  with gifts for the holy baby..


I hate taking down my Christmas tree. It's not the work or effort---I enjoy dusting each ornament, wrapping it carefully in tissue or quilt batting cutaways, and setting each into its nest for the year. What makes me sad is the ending of it all. When we fold away the season's bright baubles we also must let go of all the hopes and joy and anticipation that were so wondrous just a few short weeks ago. (Or if you're a Halloween starter, 2 1/2 long months ago!).


All that's left are memories, and some sprinklings of glitter ground into the floor.
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New Years! If you watched the TV Times Square broadcast on NYE you know we had torrential rains all evening. Not cold, but  very wet.


Usually I meet friends for a very early drink but this was no night to be on the road. Instead I invited a friend who was also home alone, and who lives nearby, for dinner.

I had a too large for one person filet mignon, which we shared.


Menu

Filet mignon with bearnaise sauce

Baby lettuce greens with balsamic vinaigrette and warm goat cheese.

Baby roasted potatoes.

Stuffed portobello mushrooms,
filled with mushroom stems, chopped and parsley 
and asiago cheese.



Easy and delicious! Mo wore his party crown we'd found on the sidewalk on our walk a few days before. It's lovely rose gold glitter; he likes it a lot.


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New Years Day menu 
[Family arriving home, time unknown)

Roast Pork glazed with garlic and TJ's pepper jelly
and gravy

Potato pie, recipe below.


[or] Baked butternut squash with nutmeg and cinnamon

Steamed Brussels sprouts

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No desserts either night, though on NYE my friend and I had a ''finger'' of the Grand Marnier.
Mo was snuggly in his new puffy throw.





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New Year's Day was beautiful, 60* though windy.









Here is the the first sunset of 2019! More fade than glory, but peaceful, and nice.








And so now we open our unwritten book,   the future lies ahead waiting for us to fill its pages. May the year bring peace and happiness to everyone.

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Slightly off topic, a brief New Years Rant: I am so sick and tired of the declutter / minimalist hordes. All these pious people who go on about simplifying their lives/ homes / worlds--while selling us tchotchkas to clutter us up. It seems either phony or money grubbing, not sure which. Disingenuous?

As for me I don't want to simply or declutter, I love my stuff! I want to wear French perfume and diamond earrings and buy cool stuff. I don't want to spend an entire year not buying a single plate, bowl or yard of fabric. What's the fun in that?

I'm supposed to be entertained/ fullfilled by self-denial? Like I'm a Medieval anchorite?  I hate that now I have to think and rethink if I want to write about items I've found thrifting or at the flea; I feel uncomfortable being a collector, as if I should keep my finds hidden from a disapproving world. No thrills of the hunt, just the smug satisfaction of mouthing the current buzz words?

There's a book just published, about living a minimalist life. That book, in hardcover not Kindle, sold out everywhere! On FB I had to leave a message: "I don't feel the need to to clutter my home with your $$$ book on minimalism."

This year I bought a few [used] books again. Ten years ago I got rid of ALL my books. Yes my quilt books, my Susan Branch books, my hard cover Lee Childs and Vince Flynns. My childhood collection of Beatrix Potter books; all my Tasha Tudor books. I even threw away years worth of  twice-weekly letters from my mom, and a lifetime of birthday cards. I regret my decisions almost daily. I love the books I now bought, they may be clutter, my exhusband always despised books as  "your mess", but I want them, and now I have 4 or 5 of them, along with six sets of dinner china, hundreds of quilts, and two sets of formal silver flatware.

Yes, I am still frugal. The books were second hand; my thermostat is still set at 55*, I mend socks and clothes; that's okay, just thrifty. (And truly I'd buy new socks if I could find the kind I like!)

This simple life crap is 2019s buzz, just like clean eating was 2017-2018's. My classic cooking may not be gluten free, soy free, dairy free...but it NOT dirty or unclean. Who makes this stuff up, Gwenneth Paltrow? Oprah? I hate it. Right now I am taking the pledge: NO minimalism. Ever.

And last: I bet Biggie the Pug [AKC Champion Toy Dog 2018] weighs a heck of a lot more than freakin' 18 pounds,lol. Some person on FB said Mo is fat. We cried.




love

lizzy

gone to the beach.....



Potato Pie

one deep dish pre-made pie crust, pre-baked 375* for 15 minutes.

Meanwhile make a bag of prepared mashed potatoes, using fat free Half and Half.
 OR enough fresh made mashed potatoes to fill the pie shell

Add 4 oz/ 1/2 bag of grated sharp cheddar,
2T butter
and
two bunches of scallions, washed and chopped into 1/3" pieces, 
including nice green parts. 
Sauteed until translucent, but not too soft.

!/2 package of precooked Oscar Meyer bacon, 
diced and cooked on paper towels in micro til crisp.

Salt pepper parsley to taste.

Whisk everything together with a fork, add more milk or cream if needed to be fluffy but not wet.

Bake at 375* for about 50 minutes, 
until the crust edges and top of the filling begin to look pretty and brown.

Cool 2 minutes before cutting.
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Yum! Fast and so delicious, best with prime rib, but nice with pork roast too.

PS I am having computer disk and photo upload issues. Bear with me please.




11 comments:

  1. Where to freakin' begin!? At the end, I suppose- what the heck? Mo is a pug, its his build for crying out loud!! I hope you asked if they've ever seen a pug that looks skinny!
    How sad you gave up your letters and books. I got rid of stuff when I didn't know better and I regret it too.
    Please keep showing your flea finds- I'm not going minimalist and neither are any of my friends!
    I always feel let down after the holidays. I had to get out today for a short brisk hike to clear out the doldrums!!
    Let's have a terrific year!!

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  2. I always hated putting away the Christmas decorations, too, especially the lighted tree. Maybe we ought to come up with some kind of lighted non-holiday thing to keep our spirits up until spring gets here?

    Yeah, I'm no minimalist, either! I lost my parents when I was still fairly young, and I've always been very aware that what I have from them can't be replaced, ever. So I cling. My kids may not, after I'm gone, but that's okay, I won't be around either. That said, I do want to do a little bit of thinning, as I have cheap paperbacks stacked around that weren't that good the first time around so I won't be re-reading them, and if I can clear some of them out maybe I'll be able to find the ones I DO like to re-read. And there's too much crap in my closet that doesn't fit!

    But I hope you continue to share your finds! I enjoy seeing and you have gotten some cool stuff. Besides - how much you wanna bet a lot of those 'minimalists' still have piles of stuff at their parents' house or in storage somewhere?!

    Have a great year, and ENJOY WHAT YOU LIKE!

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  3. Your rant just made me smile. I have looked and looked at the minimalist sites, at least in regards to my clothing. Nope--can't do it. Just doesn't fit my lifestyle. And I really love my decor clutter as it makes our house feel like a HOME. I have been to many homes that either look like a pottery barn add or else they look like a motel room--so sterile and lacking in personality. Please keep posting your flea market finds and your awesome seasonal decor. It always makes me think that I need to dig deeper at the second hand stores so maybe I can find some really good stuff too!

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  4. I've reached an age where I suit myself. I don't by magazines any longer with all their rubbish. Time to live your life how you want and ignore the rest. I love a lot of what you buy and your sewing and bits and pieces and photos and Mo, I mustn't forget Mo even though I'm not a fan of dog clothes but that's your choice. Ignore what you want, enjoy 2019 your way.

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    1. In my defense, Pugs like to be dressed up, they've been beribboned and fussed over for 3000 years. It's their resaon to be. I wouldn't do it if Mo hated it.....And I prob wouldn't dress up, say, a German Shepherd or a Pointer, etc.

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  5. I loved your post! Don’t let anyone tell you your things need to go! Love seeing your thrifted finds. Don’t change a thing

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    1. Thanks! I have a thrifting day planned for next week, unless it snows!

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  6. That is right don't change a thing! We all enjoy your post & seeing Mo in all his cute outfits to keep him warm & dry!
    The potato pie,stuffed mushrooms and all you dishes look delicious. Enjoy
    Happy New Year to you & MO 2019

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    1. Thanks! Mo and treasure hunting will continue to be featured [of course].

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  7. Mo in his party crown is a great way to start the New Year! Well, I certainly do not intend to stop collecting either. I love my stuff! In fact, I am having such fun redecorating with my collections right now. It is definitely a "clock" month...lol :) Kit

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  8. Enjoy each and every trinket, bauble, book, scrap of fabric, old slippers - whatever gives you comfort and a smile or reflection. We have a comfortable home - no, BHG will not be ringing our bell soon to photograph the house while we sit with forced smiles. Hah! Home for me is Haven. Phooey on the scorners. Maybe they are not happy in their own surroundings. As for Mo - he is what God made him to be. Your precious baby.

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