I wiped away the weeds & foam. / I fetched my sea-born treasures home... Ralph Waldo Emerson







Wednesday, February 14, 2018

Happy Valentine's Day

To all my friends~



Happy Valentine's Day from me and Mo!










Mo's "MOM" tattoo heart sweater is from Chewy.com


















Mo's sweater needed a LOT of alterations.


But now he can be happy when he wears it.
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May your holiday be filled with happiness, love, friendship and laughter. Maybe some roses and chocolates too?

love

lizzy

gone to the beach...










Monday, February 12, 2018

Cake ~ Love



"There are so many forms of love. Spending time with friends, telling stories. I enjoy showing my love by baking a cake for somebody ..."  Pia Klementieff


I love to bake, it's fun and easy, and fills my house with delightful scents. To me baking a cake is way of showing love---whether the recipient wants it or not, hahaha.


When I met my ex husband he was a young guy living in Manhattan. Every week he'd take the subway out to Flatbush Brooklyn to visit his mother. Every week she'd send him home with homemade chicken soup and a homemade cinnamon swirl pound cake. It was, I'm sure, her way of showing her love.

My friend is coming to visit tomorrow. When I have special guests I like to have a homemade cake or cookies to offer, with hot tea in the winter, lemonade in the summer. It's my way of welcoming, of showing my love; it fits my old-fashioned notions of hospitality.


My mom sent my dad to NYC with a pound cake wrapped in foil, for my birthday one year. 22? 23?He took me to Tiffany's and bought me a gold bangle bracelet with a tiny diamond on it. I wish I still had it. A cake---and a gift---my undemonstrative family's version of love.

This weekend I baked a cake for my friend who makes the long drive down from Upstate New York to spend the day with me. Here's another fun cake quote:
"My idea of baking is buying a ready make cake mix and throwing in an egg." Cilla Black [was she a famous Beatles groupie, or what?]



I was so in the mood for carrot cake! Mel and I had been talking about an old New England recipe for Campbell's Tomato Soup Cake. Mel said, eeew, but I said maybe good, like carrot cake?
The baking aisles are sparse these days; lots of gluten free, no carrot cake mix. At the third store I tried I found an old fashioned Betty Crocker pound cake mix. Perfect.

I do use mixes, they're easy and fun. I used olive oil for moistness, the above mentioned egg; poppy seeds; and I subbed orange-peach Grand Marnier  liqueur for the liquid. Ooooh it smelled amazing, heaven on a dark fog -drenched day. [the fog horn has been wailing all day again today.]


It baked up so high! Is that from the liqueur?




I sliced it and layered it with orange marmalade and a layer of cream cheese frosting.





A small amount of frosting was melted and put on top.



Teatime.






I love sweet flowered tea party dishes.


Violets, swoon.





Lavender rose buds, lily of the valley, pansies...


I don't actually use this china for guests, because modern people find it pretentious and it makes them feel uncomfortable or uneasy. It places too much importance on the act of eating and sharing. For real life I have plain grey blue mugs from Target. Go figure.


Will my friend partake? I doubt it, I think she is still on her ''Clean 3o" diet kick. She looks wonderful and has lost so much weight that I can't be disappointed by her rejection. I have apples [only Granny Smith!]; organic raw almonds, and hard boiled eggs, with cold green tea for her instead. The cake went in the freezer.


My kids should be home soon, from skiing. I made Swedish meatballs and salad---in case they're hungry. No cake.



love

lizzy

gone to the beach....












Clean 30 Eating HERE

Tomato Soup Cake  here

PS Paperwhites FAIL! I must take back my suggestion that we can just pick up a supermarket box of daff bulbs on sale! So disappointing, only two mingy little, though very sweet, flower bunches. This was week three, last Monday. Next year I'll order from Amazon instead, it's worth a few more dollars spent.










Friday, February 9, 2018

Winter Bird Nests ~ and Some Shopping



When I was a little girl I collected birds' nests. I was a shy, solitary, book-nerd child and presumably to  get me out for some exercise and fresh air, my mother invented nature walks. Looking back it seems odd of her---my mom was not yet thirty, an urban young woman who had met and married her husband in NYC, a former stewardess, a woman who cared about clothes and hairdos and who ''did her nails". But walk we did, after school on the long afternoons when my dad was away travelling for work.


We lived in a suburb that was urban encroachment on what was once farmland, so behind our house was a tiny old apple orchard, cornfields, a new peach orchard, then a wide creek with tadpoles and leopard frogs and box turtles---and acres of woodland. If you walked far enough, the woods met a highway with a roadside bar that my parents went to on Saturday nights. My memory is they left us home alone but perhaps a babysitter was there, I don't recall.


My mother taught me how to find birds' nests by watching in the spring to see where the birds would go into the leafy trees, bugs and worms in their beaks. We only collected nests that had fallen, of course, but I amassed a small gathering, displayed in the basement on the old pine topped farm table where my mom folded laundry. (Oh I wish I had that table now! The chunky turned green chippy legs, the lovely oiled pine top. Sigh.) I had a few treasures, a mud cup of a robin's nest, a lichen encrusted hummingbird nest.
Here at the beach, songbirds are few, but my eye is still trained to see the evidence of summer bird activity. When Mo and I walk in the winter, I am thrilled to finally find Mr Mockingbird's nest in a now-bare shrub, like this one, near where the mockingbird chatters frantically on the grey fence in the early summer.




We also look for signs of spring. Most of the Big Snow has melted and underneath a few green tips of daffodils are peeking out.


Sharp eyes and patience required.


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In the stores Valentines Day has passed ages ago, the theme is spring!




                                     


And again birds' nests.






Now that we know birds return and reuse their nests each year it's especially important not to ever touch a still-viable structure. Faux is clean and pretty and ecologically better.


Cute bunnies too! Though my kids are too old for Easter decor or baskets/ treats, too bad.



And I really want this pitcher, 25% off.  Isn't it wonderful. Calls out for pink hyacinths or white tulips on my table.







Pier One also had wonderful furniture. How I wish my budget [still saving for a new dishwasher and dryer vent cleaning], could run to new sofas like this one.



So white, so soft! Zippered slipcovers!



Quite modern [or Chippendale field desk?] but such a good idea for a sofa table. It even has a drawer for sewing things, or TV remote? Nice design, not yucky plastic and tin.


This would be a great coffee table with a  Nantucket basket or driftwood-ish tray on top.


Neat cabinet too, with good storage.


Lovely chair, same one I've been wanting in the blue floral or ecru stripe. (Kel, I was chicken to sit in it! All set up for display. LOL. I'll go back with a friend to investigate further.]


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In other news, how would you like to wake up to this on your phone!? Eeeeek!



And--last night I couldn't find Mo. Where's Mo? Where's Mo!? Not underfoot, not in his bed where he watches me during the day, not outside or downstairs...where is Mo.








(His new food regimen leaves him very hungry, poor little man. But unfortunately is adding weight. Must reassess!)



Any signs of spring at your house?
Have a great weekend! I'm off to buy a Lotto ticket, because ''ya never know''.

love

lizzy

gone to the beach........
















Just for Fun, a Nature Walk with Doug the Pug!